* Forever Friends

Having moved several times growing up, I didn’t have childhood friends that I had a history with and stayed in contact with over the years. In the late 70’s when I was a college student, the people I met there became “my people”. Almost 50 years later, they’re still my people; my forever friends. They are the ones I call when I need to be grounded. They’re the ones I call when I feel like my life is falling apart. Well, they’re just the ones I call! They know me, really know me and are always able to get me through whatever is going on in my life. We have shared some good times and have great memories of our “adventures” together.  None of us live in the same city anymore but it doesn’t matter because we take the time to keep in touch. The friendship is that valuable to us all.

I think back on the last 50 years and marvel at how we’ve still remained so close. The reason? It’s a relationship worth nurturing and protecting. Sure, it takes work to stay connected but anything that’s important to you is worth the work. Yes, I do have other friends who are very dear to me and have been there for me; it’s just that I’ve known these three the longest.

One of my friends is a fierce protector. She doesn’t like for anyone or anything to hurt me and she’s the first one to come to my defense. Another one is the nurturer. She’s the one who drives 3 hours to stay with you in the hospital and bring you food when you’re sick. Then there’s the one who always brings me joy and encouragement with her laughter and her music. Each of them has a very special place in my heart and I just don’t know what I’d do without them.  I pray you have forever friends that are there for you through life’s journeys. So ECU girls, this post is for you.

Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken. Ecclesiastes 4:12

Blessings, Cindy J